So You Married a Farmer... Now What? Wisdom for New Wives (From Two Who've Been There)
Welcome back to Beyond the Crops, where farm life meets real life! Join your hosts, Jena Ochsner and Mary Pat Sass, as they take a candid look back at their very different journeys into becoming farm wives. From big city dreams to growing up on a dairy farm, they share their unique perspectives, the lessons learned over nearly a decade (for Jena, a 10-year anniversary is just days away!), and heartfelt advice for anyone navigating the complexities of marrying into a farm family.
📌 What We Cover in This Episode:
✅ Jena and Mary Pat share their distinctly different paths to becoming farm wives.
✅ They discuss the realities and adjustments of early marriage within a farm family.
✅ The infamous "farm laundry" debate and game-changing mother-in-law advice is revealed.
✅ Valuable lessons learned and heartfelt advice are offered for new (or aspiring) farm wives.
✅ They explore the journey of finding your unique place and voice within a multi-generational farm.
✅ The critical role of communication, especially with your spouse, in navigating farm family dynamics is highlighted.
✅ Jena and Mary Pat emphasize being open to God's evolving plan for your life and role.
✅ The importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing family time amidst farm demands is discussed.
✅ They underscore the power of connecting with other farm women for support and understanding.
✅ Listeners are reminded to have grace for themselves and enjoy the journey of farm wife life.
💡 Key Takeaways:
✨ Every farm wife's journey is unique, shaped by her background, her husband's farm, and the family dynamics involved.
✨ Open communication with your spouse is paramount; they are often the best bridge to navigating conversations with the wider farm family.
✨ It's okay to not know everything when you marry into a farm. Be curious, ask questions, and be patient with yourself as you learn and grow into your role.
✨ Don't be afraid to advocate for your needs and the needs of your immediate family, even if it means challenging long-standing traditions (respectfully, of course).
✨ Finding a community of other farm women, whether in person or online, can provide invaluable support, understanding, and encouragement.
✨ Trust God's timing and be open to how your role and life may evolve. What you envision today might not be what brings you the most fulfillment tomorrow.
🙌 Join the Conversation!
We’d love to hear from you! If you're a farm wife, what's one piece of advice you'd give to your newlywed self? Or, if you're new to farm life, what's one question you have? Share your thoughts and tag us @beyondthecrops_.
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